NOT ALL THAT

I wanted to write something prolific as the opening statement in this entry but my head is totally blank right now. If the backspace button can just talk, it will definitely tell me to make up my mind and stop deleting the sentences I come up with. But hey, a lot of thoughts have been bouncing in my head lately which makes it harder to write.

Anyway, I’ll try to write something sensible. Speaking of that, I have something to say to some folks who feel and think that they are all that. You see friends, my week has been massacred by people who are so full of themselves that sometimes you want to rip open their bubbles of conceit and arrogance.

Case 1. There is a huge difference between feedback and attack and from my perspective, you are without a doubt attacking us. You see, am not really reactive. Ask from friends and they will tell you that am very calm. As much as possible, I strive to be reasonable about criticisms and unfavorable judgment. Now, if you have something to say, be objective. Be educated. Be professional.  After all, you claim to be all that.

Case 2. I have my share of blogcapades (term coined from Lethal Kisser) and I want to impart my realizations about a certain entry I read most especially to those who thinks that beauty is tantamount to glory. I want to tell you that a beautiful face does not give you the license to be rude or act like a total jerk. A beautiful face does not mean that you are better than other people. And most of all, a beautiful face does not give you a free pass to throw judgment to other people.  After all, a beautiful face does not make you all that. So please, ayaw pag-kinapayas.

Case 3. I have no Case 3. As a matter of fact, I think I made my point already.  Just a word of advice though:  Just always consider common courtesy and act toward others as you want them to act toward you. That is simple Rule of Reciprocity. As my partner usually say, “Even children have manners.” Arrogance does not equate to confidence. Remember that!

I HAVE REASONS TO CELEBRATE

Amid the problems am dealing with right now (if you have been following my blog am pretty sure you know what am talking about), I still have a number of reasons to celebrate.  

First…

Yesterday was the first monthsary of thinkaboutmigraine. Wooot! Yes, my dear readers, my blog site is 30 days old. Well, I suppose that’s an accomplishment. Thirty days ago, I decided to go back to blogging despite my crazy schedule and some hesitations. To be candid about things, am not really sure about what to expect after I convinced myself to give blogging another chance. You see, I have this cardinal rule about writing and that is, “When writing, write the way you talk.”  

Sadly, am a total contradiction of my rule. The folks who personally know me can attest that am not really a good conversationalist. Modesty aside (clears throat), I am a very convincing speaker; I facilitate meetings effectively; I deliver winning extempo and impromptu speeches but, I totally suck in casual conversations.  I mean, I don’t usually engage in a chat most especially if the crowd is unfamiliar and because of that, people see me as someone who is aloof, indifferent and unfriendly. But really, am not (big, cute grin).I guess am just misunderstood, most of the time (bigger, cuter grin).

But seriously, thinkaboutmigraine has become a venue for me to actually communicate and express my thoughts. To be open. Vulnerable. Exposed (hahaha).

Sure, sometimes I keep mum in casual conversations but, I share my few cents when needed or even at times when unsolicited. I communicate my thoughts when I need to put things into perspective.

So, to thinkaboutmigraine, Happy FirstMonthsary!

Second…

Love is very vague until and unless someone or something shows it to you. In my case, it’s someone. Three years and seven months ago, both of us decided to give ourselves a chance again – to be hurt, to trust and to give without counting the cost.

So now, all I have are words of thanks. Thank you for the patience, understanding and tolerance. Thank you for making me smile; for making me laugh with your hilarious dance moves. Thank you for always putting me to sleep if I have my migraine attacks. Thank you for constantly reminding me that am special and loved. And most of all, thank you for being my rock.

“Happiness is eating pancakes early in the morning with hot coffee in front of the person you dear eating the same food as yours

“Happiness is a text message from the person you dear telling you McDonald’s breakfast is coming

“Happiness is...”

I love you and Happy Monthsary!



AN ARTICLE OF A FAN. CONGRATULATIONS, MAX!

I am always a proud friend most especially of the achievements of my friends. Back in college, we developed this bond that the success of one is the success of all. We never outgrew that. Now, despite that we have our own lives and families, divided by different time zones and geography, we managed to treasure that bond.

Last Sunday, October 24, we were in jubilation after Maxi bagged the 2010 title of Convergys Idol. He hurdled the elimination rounds against 24 hopefuls. During the finale, he battled against the remaining six contestants. Conversely, I was one of the witnesses on how he worked hard and prepared for the competition. Max is always like that. He puts his heart into what he is doing and he does not settle for what's mediocre. He is very competitive, meticulous and part of that is studying who he's against with.

During the finals, Maxi sang "Ordinary People" by John Legend. Undoubtedly, his version was pitch perfect, spotless, effortless and relevant. Am not really a fan of that song but in some way, he has this ability to convince me to believe on what he is singing. I guess that's his gift. He is persuasive in his songs.

Max singing "Ordinary People"

While watching him on stage, I was seeing a sure winner. God forbid, if he lost, I might or we might have created a scene hahaha. But you see, you can never put a gifted singer down.

I have always been a fan of Maxi. Back in college, Max and I were members of two different important organizations in our university. He was a member of G-Clef, the resident glee club in our school while me and some of the barkada were the prime movers of our university’s theater company. Every time his group holds a concert either outside or within the university, we make sure that we have our banners and our loud cheers and applause ready in support of his performance. And Maxi never fails to deliver. He usually gets the solo. He usually sings the best part of the song. He is usually the crowd favorite.

Max owned the stage

  

Congratulations again langga. We are proud of what you've achieve. Your success is our success too. We will always be your number one fan. 

Post script:

Pasalamat ka dili ayo ana ka tsada akung tingug or else, magtigi tang duha hahaha. Happy nalang ko na akoy murag modelon sa grupo. hahaha. Peace!

ITS OUR DEMI'S BIRTHDAY

I have an idea. Pampa-uso lang…

Every time a close friend (close friend lang gyud) celebrates his / her birthday, as my birthday gift (just an excuse for not buying something hehehe), I will be featuring his / her TOP FIVE “notorious” quotes. This could be lines, phrases, expressions or thoughts, he / she intentionally or unconsciously uttered or shared during our conversations.

Why their qoutes? Well, I just have this belief that if you value the person or consider someone special, you sincerely listen to them and in the process, you understand and appreciate them more.

So, for our maiden issue, let’s give a big round of applause to our birthday girl, Demi – Comm Cebu’s very own Creative Media Analyst aka Miss India.

Ready Dems?

TOP FIVE NOTORIOUS QOUTES

#5:      “Dili ko kahurot sa akong rice”

#4:      “Yosi ta tah”

#3:      (while chatting about showbiz) “Kinsa diay na sila? Wala man gyud mi TV sa amo”

#2:      “Mo-apas ko, promise”

And

#1:      “11 times”

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DEMS!



IN A VERY UNUSUAL WAY

In a very unusual way, this song performed by Barang displayed so much gravity and grace. Well, I don't really care who gave a better performance of this song - Kidman, Benanti or the other performers from the original Broadway or London productions. Am just thankful and happy that I get to enjoy this piece.

This is my new fave. For now. Am sharing the video clip and lyrics. Enjoy!

In a very unusual way one time I needed you.
In a very unusual way you were my friend.
Maybe it lasted a day, maybe it lasted an hour.
But, somehow it will never end.

In a very unusual way I think I?m in love with you.
In a very unusual way I want to cry.
Something inside me goes week,
Something inside me surrenders.
And you're the reason why,
You're the reason why

You don't know what you do to me,
You don't have a clue.
You can't tell what its like to be me looking at you.
It scares me so, that I can hardly speak.

In a very unusual way, I owe what I am to you.
Though at times it appears I won't stay, I never go.
Special to me in my life,
Since the first day that I met you.
How could I ever forget you,
Once you had touched my soul?
In a very unusual way,
You've made me whole