BETTER

While I was trying to rest my head from writing and editing the office e-mailers, I searched YouTube and listened to the good old songs from Boyzone and came across this unfamiliar song entitled, “Better.” Yeah, you can crucify me but this is the first time I've heard of this track made famous by Tom Baxter. And honestly, I think everyone should be able to listen to this poetry. The music, lyrics and message are powerful on their own. You see, am a Boyzone fan and watching Steo in the video is just sad :-(

"Better" is now part of my all-time faves and I guess I'll be listening to this for quite a while. If there's a take away or lesson I learned from the song it is that it really doesn’t matter who you love. Love after all is all-inclusive no matter who it is.

Now, go and click on the vid and enjoy!

BETTER

Our love has changed, 

It’s not the same, 

And the only way to say it 

Is say it

It’s better. 

I can’t conceal, 

This way I feel, 

For all the time we spent, together, forever

Just gets better. 

See what I’m trying to say is 

You make things better 

And no matter what the day is, 

With you here  it’s better. 

I’ll stand by you, 

If you stand by me. 

I think time that I, reveal it, 

‘Cos I believe it 

It’s better. 

See what I’m trying to say is: 

You make things - better 

And no matter what the day is, 

With you here - it’s better. 

Ooooh the more 

I talk to you 

The more in love with 

Every thing you do 

Doo doo doo doo doo doo 

See what I’m trying to say is 

You make things better 

And no matter what the day is, 

With you here it’s better. 

Our love has changed 

It’s not the same 

And the only way to say it 

Is say it 

It’s better 

THE WONDER YEARS

If there’s one show on Earth that I would live to watch over and over and over again, hands down, it would definitely be The Wonder Years. Although The Wonder Years tells the story of young Kevin Arnold who lives in a suburban neighborhood in 1968, for people my age, The Wonder Years has become the mirror of what its like to live in the 80’s. The show captured the pain and triumphs of youth and each episode of the show would leave a smirk, a smile and an indefinable warmth associated with the wonders of being young.

I guess the magic of the show can be attributed not only to how tight-knit the cast are but more importantly, the brilliance of the message and moments of each episode. The last episode of the show was entitled, “Independence Day” and personally, ‘twas one if not, the most poignant ending I’ve ever seen. The show reminds us of what our life is all about. You see, The Wonder Years is part of my happy memory and I got so connected with the characters that watching the finale is always bitter-sweet. I own a downloaded copy of the series and it is always a “WONDER” to see the show over and over and over.

They don’t make shows like this anymore. The Wonder Years was good old fashion entertainment that dealt with real issues that our youth face. When I look back now, it reminds me that things were a lot simpler then. I guess, we can say that the problems we had then are nothing to the things that kids deal with today. Times change and things change. To borrow the words of the shows finale: “Growing up happens in a heartbeat. One day you’re in diapers, the next day you’re gone. But the memories of childhood stay with you for the long haul. I remember a place, a town, a house like a lot of other houses, a yard like a lot of other yards, on a street like a lot of other streets. And the thing is, after all these years, I still look back, with wonder.”

MOVING OUT AND MOVING ON

Obviously, I haven’t written an entry for nearly three weeks now. I’m a busy man, you see. The past weeks have been a rollercoaster ride and some of the tasks that I need to accomplish demands so much of my time and concentration. The biggest job so far was moving to a new apartment. Yup! I recently transferred to a new place which is now very convenient because it’s closer to the office, the malls and chuches. I won’t go into the nitty-gritty details as to why I transferred. Suffice it to say that I felt so relieved with my decision to move out since the whole experience has been physically and emotionally draining.

In hindsight, if there’s one thing I learned from this experience it is that when you live with someone, everything isn’t always your way. According to an article I read online, sharing a place can be difficult especially with friends. Sometimes you think you know someone well, but once you move in with them, everything changes. Living together is not the same as hanging out. Once you share a common living space, all of the oddities and habits are revealed. And subsequently, it’s where problems or issues begin and could sometimes lead to the ending of friendship.

Right now, I am more appeased. I can rest soundly. I am no longer bothered and inconvenienced. I am happier.

After all that’s been said and done, I can honestly say that my moving out was all worth it.